ANNOUNCEMENTS FOR SPIRITUAL GROWTH
Thank you for all who have participated in the monthly online Paradigm Shifter’s practicum for almost a year. There will be no practicum in March, and the format will probably be changing. I’m in the process of restructuring my business, getting ready to launch a new website, in fact two new ones. One will be with my business partner, Leila, on part of the project we’ve been working on for over 2 years. My life is about to take some new paths to more align myself with how to bring forth my work in the world. More news about this next month.
On March 12th at 2 AM, the clocks spring forward in many parts of the US…we ‘gain’ an hour so consider getting to bed earlier to help balance your day. Europe changes on the 26th.
ACCREDITED THETAHEALING WORKSHOPS
All courses are accredited by the ThetaHealing Institute of Knowledge® and can be applied toward the ThetaHealing® Master and Certificate of Science programs. If you have not taken the Basic or Advanced in 5 years, please be aware that this is the time for recertification in order to keep the name ThetaHealing® or Thetahealing Technique® in use through your website, practice or business card. Reduced pricing is available if it's been 5 years or less. More information is at:
Advanced-March 10-12, 2017, Friday-Sunday
Dig Deeper- April 1st-2nd, 2017, Saturday-Sunday
Basic-May 5-7th, Friday-Sunday
BLOG FOR THE SOUL
Quote of the month: Writing anything as an expert is really poisonous to the writing process, because you lose the quality of discovery. ~Siddhartha Mukherjee
I’ve been having some interesting conversations lately in checking out shifting the structure of my life and business. I realized that I’m working in a way that isn’t efficient, not in balance with my personal needs nor as effective in bringing the work I’m here to do in the world in a bigger way. I think that presenting last month’s Paradigm shifters’ practicum about taking care of our needs, hit home in a big way.
There were also two eclipses--a lunar eclipse on the full moon and solar eclipse on the new moon in February—with penetrating energy which affected me deeply--emotionally, physically and spiritually. Simple things like working on projects until 2 am and only getting 4-5 hours sleep per night, is just not what I want to keep on doing. My body is tired and really communicating with me in it not being heard.
I’m in process of creating a different format for my work with my business partner on healing childhood trauma. I want time to write my other books that I have started too. I’d like to cut down on the time I spend on other projects that are using many hours of my time with little acknowledgment or necessary support. I’d like to get to bed before midnight.
As synchronicity would have it, last month on my FB newsfeed, was an ad for a free scholarship to a 3-day coaching seminar lead by a well-known coach with a huge following close to where my daughter lives. I watched his online introduction, and I listened to him ask, “Do you want to not work so hard, earn more and still be of service in the world?” ‘YES, so yes!’
“Do you feel you give away your time and energy and get little back in return, with little sleep?” YES, he must have heard the dialogue in my head.
I’ve been a healing practitioner for almost 40 years. It’s always been about service for me, but I also want to provide financial opportunities for myself so I can eventually create centers, which I’ve visualized for years, to help others heal from childhood abuse. I spent 30 years working on myself deeply, and I gleaned so much in that journey which ended almost a year ago. I am so grateful to have made it through. My body is still readjusting, but definite improvements. Coming back into the world even more ‘sensitive’ in other ways than before, isn’t easy and very vulnerable for me. But there is also a strength and communication that is being ‘reshaped’ in a new way.
I looked into the coaching even further by checking a few of this coach’s YouTubes and also put out feelers in seeing that several other ThetaHealers were on his FB page. I contacted one to ask her whether she had actually worked with him. She had, and surprisingly found out that she was a ‘fan’ of my Moving Beyond book. She was happy to share information as she, too, was a coach. She also introduced to me another coach who works with some clients who are healing practitioners.
With all this, what I kept hearing is a word that is being used in the U.S. coaching world that occurs not only often, but as a way to identify someone … an EXPERT. I was somehow expected to accept that I was an ‘expert’ on childhood trauma and was being introduced to another this way, who picked up the baton in calling me this. It seems that everyone on this coach's FB page who was invited in, was an expert in some way. To me, there is a difference between expertise and an expert.
I’m not one who lives in boxes of other’s definitions of who I am or what I do. Though the person’s intentions were of care, kindness and respect, I responded to the introductions saying that I wasn’t an expert but specialized in the field. She made mention that I was somehow not allowing myself to accept this role by not understanding what an ‘expert’ is. I was also told how much I had helped this person with issues through her reading my book. I was most grateful to hear this later part.
She asked if I would be open to giving myself Creator’s teaching of what an expert is and that my perspective and definition is the same as Creator’s. I didn’t see an issue with that. I not only downloaded it but asked Creator to ‘show me’. In receiving a visual along with somatic feelings, I started laughing. I saw this energy of wisdom and divinity attempt to come into the human mind, and it got jumbled and taken into ‘ego’ level. I’m glad I didn’t ask Creator to teach me to be an ‘expert’.
I looked it up as well. "Experts are called in for advice on their respective subject, but they do not always agree on the particulars of a field of study. An expert can be believed, by virtue of credential, training, education, profession, publication or experience, to have special knowledge of a subject beyond that of the average person, sufficient that others may officially (and legally) rely upon the individual's opinion. [notice opinion...it doesn't mean the Truth of the subject] It is socially constructed; the tools for thinking and scripts for action are jointly constructed within social groups enabling that group jointly to define what an expert is in that domain.” [So it's subjective and imbued with expectations of what needs to be lived up to in order to be and stay an 'expert']
This all may sound trivial, but the frequencies and understandings of words are important. One's person's expert can be another person's disillusionment, because real Truth isn't necessarily presented with ‘experts’ but expected to be accepted by others. We can look at any field of specializing and be aware of how it changes according to ‘experts’ who are often swayed by who affects them or are bought out. Parents aren’t supposed to make decisions on the needs of their children because they have to leave it to the ‘experts’ (who are run by scrupulous corporations). Citizens are supposed to agree with deceptive and treacherous policies because they are not ‘experts’ on a particular matter. We only need to take a look around to see the way ‘experts’ take power away from others, often with false information and others often willingly give it up.
I am not an authority on healing trauma, which the word ‘expert’ connotates, nor do I want to be because that will box me into something that isn't true for me, but I have a great deal of experience, understanding, awareness and relational and healing skills. I act in the role of a specialist open to understanding more that comes forth. I don't have all the answers for each person's individual process and situation as that arises from them...they are a participant in the process that adds to the knowledge. I witness through Creator and bring forth the wisdom that I have gleaned. So it’s a synergy of energies that supports the client to heal.
Just because someone even specializes doesn’t mean they live in my body and know it the way I do, and that my awareness should be disqualified because I don’t have a PhD or MD. At this time in history, it is so important that we really question what is being told to us.
The energy that many coaches project in telling people to claim being ‘experts’ often feels like they are selling pyramid/network marketing under the premise of human services; and for me, this kind of service is going to limit those who might really want another approach that is more inclusive and non-hierarchal. And that is where I'm attempting to find my center in balancing my purpose with financial improvements.
I told the person that I had talked with Creator about looking at the structure of ‘expert’ and that I hadn't changed my mind, because there was nothing to really change. The structure of the word and the interpretations that are embedded within it are rampant with authority energy, thus hierarchal, and I am not going to label myself an 'expert'. I can claim that I specialize, and that works for me.
I'm grateful to be able to bring this subject to the surface so we can all feel into it and find our own truth. It also helps me to listen to my clients more deeply knowing that they are sharing wisdom of their process, thus my knowledge can be expanded, incorporated, and then presented to others in a way that becomes a real connecting and heart space for growth and healing.
Happy Coming Spring Equinox!
With care and with love,
I extracted possible ‘theme’ beliefs from the story. Energy test yourself for them, practice clearing them through digging if applicable, and use Creator's teachings, including the ones below, if they fit.
*I have to be exhausted to be productive.
*I need other people’s labels of what I do in order to be seen for who I am in the world.
*I have to follow the trendy ways in order to be successful in the world.
*My understanding of myself needs to be disqualified by others in order to figure out who I am.
*I have to allow others to be experts over what is true for me (…in to feel safe in the world).
*I need to take on the label of expert to feel confident about myself and my skills.
*I need other people’s opinions of my truth to know who I am.
Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it's possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be)
*Know the difference between expert and expertise.
*Know the difference between specializing in the field and being an expert.
* Work intelligently and efficiently.
*I understand the difference between a person's or groups opinions and the highest truth of the situation.
*I know how to adjust myself to the ways of the world which work for me without losing who I am and what I need.
*The difference between the definition of a word through Creator and the interpretations that are imbedded within the word to create its meaning.
*To be able to tell the difference between words that connotate hierarchal thinking and words that are relational and connecting.
*The difference between hierarchal network marketing under the premise of human service and true human service with financial abundance through Creator.
Neuroscientists believe they have found proof for life after death & presented it to the UN. Dr. Bruce Greyson, who spoke at a conference that was held by the United Nations, is considered to be one of the “fathers” of near death studies. He is Professor Emeritus of Psychiatry and Neurobehavioral Science at the University of Virginia. He describes documented cases of individuals who were clinically dead (showing no brain activity), but observing everything that was happening to them on the medical table below at the same time. He describes how there have been many instances of this – where individuals are able to describe things that should have been impossible to describe. Another significant statement by Dr Greyson posits that this type of study has been discouraged due to our tendency to view science as completely materialistic.
Time Crystals-brand new form of matter that has just been discovered
Researchers have just reported in detail how to make and measure time crystals- strange crystals that have an atomic structure that has a structure that repeats in time, not just in space. And it keep oscillating in its ground state. It’s like their matter and structure is created by a time loop that repeats itself. It appears as the time crystal is moving without energy but in fact, it is being created. This confirms the existence of an entirely new form of matter.
DNA 3 AWARENESS
CIA Document Confirms Reality Of Humans With ‘SPECIAL ABILITIES’ Able To Do ‘Impossible’ Things!
Cases of mind influencing matter have been reported throughout history and across many cultures, more specifically in regard to ‘supernormal’ abilities which include telepathy, psychokinesis, and other phenomena that lie within the realms of parapsychology. CIA Documents confirms reality of humans with special abilities. According to Eric Davis, Ph.D, FBIS, from a declassified US Air Force document obtained via the Federation of American Scientists, Chinese scientist Shuhuang reported that ‘gifted children’ were responsible for the teleportation of small, physical objects from one place to another. Some of these objects included watches, horseflies, other insects, radio micro-transmitters, photosensitive paper and more. The participants never touched the objects beforehand. The experiments were done under both blind and double-blind conditions and the researches involved came from various colleges and sectors of the Department of Defense. This is an exceptional case because it was deemed necessary that an unclassified Intelligence Information Report be prepared for public viewing
How to fall asleep in 60 seconds
Dr. Andrew Weil, a Harvard trained medical doctor with a focus on holistic health, says that everyday radiation from various devices ‘kills’ our dream and turns us in tired ‘Zombies’ who cannot fall asleep. However, he believes that falling asleep is as easy as breathing in and breathing out. Weil claims that this 5 step technique will help you fall asleep in just 60 seconds. It also helps high blood pressure, anxiety and more.